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Tips on how to enjoy phone sex the most

Telephone sex is a great way to make a carnal connection when you and your partner are apart and spice up your life a bit. The bonus of telephone sex is that your partner cannot see you, and it is undeniably hot to leave a little to the imagination.
While it is true that phone sex can just happen, the session is more likely to go well if you plan it in advance. If you do not have someone to enjoy phone sex with, then you can try a cheap phone sex chat line numbers. You will actually discover a wide selection of phone sex operator (PSO) to talk live with, available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week on this website: www.phonesex24.co.uk. Pick a time when you are alone and free to let your inhibitions loose and think about what you would like to do during your phone sex session before you start. You can choose to have phone sex teen or even BBW phone sex, all very cheap.

Phone sex: get in the mood and let loose

It will be problematic for you to enjoy yourselves if you feel nervous, anxious and tense. Before you call, do whatever you need to do to get yourself at ease and feeling sensual. Have a bubble bath, pour yourself a glass of red wine, lie in bed for a while and do anything that will allow you to take it slow and relief the stress from your body.
As for any other type of sex, setting up and preparing a sexy atmosphere can help put you in the right mood for a phone sex session. Dim the lights, set up some candles, play soft music, put on your sexiest underwear and pretty lingerie, set out a sex toy and turn yourself on a little bit by running your hands gently all over your  body and caressing yourself to make sure that they are ready as soon as the other person gets through to you. Sex up the atmosphere. Use your erotic imagination, and, when your pulse is pounding, give your phone sex partner a call.


Having phone sex

Once you have your sex partner on the line, spend a couple of minutes talking freely before you get started and take things at a speed the two of you are comfortable with, if it helps you relax and set the mood.
Lower your voice. A low, soft tone of voice can help put you in the right frame of mind, but do not force it. If initially you feel timid, just moan and breath heavily while your phone sex partner speaks.
Start talking about something that might have the potential to spiral into a more intimate exchange and a steamier territory, such as what you would like to do if the other person were with you; what you are wearing and how you look in it, then escalate into sexy talk. Let your hands and fingers be guided by your phone sex partner’s voice as you stroke yourself, bring up sexier and sexier topics, share your steamy desires and try getting more explicit with your details. Explain to each other accurately what you are doing and start a kinky conversation.
A good approach might be to describe, step-by-step, the way you are caressing and touching yourself and what you would like to be doing with your phone sex partner, loading it up with juicy adjectives. Kink it up. Still, how explicit you get is up to you, don't feel forced to say something XXX rated if you are not comfortable with it.
Describe thoroughly the corporeal and emotive feelings, emotions and pleasures you are experiencing as a result of what you are doing and what your phone sex partner is saying. Moaning, panting, breathing heavily and groaning softly are great ways to express how good you are feeling. Bring out little moans into louder ones.

Masturbation and climax

Mutual masturbation and orgasm are essential additions to telephone sex. If you do not want to masturbate alone, ask your phone sex partner before you start if he or she might be interested in joining you. On the other hand, do not get anxious if he/she starts masturbating and you do not want to. Just enjoy listening to them pleasure themselves.
Use sex toys if you have them and don't hold back when you come, because hearing you climax makes the whole thing sexier for your phone sex partner. Don't worry if you bring yourself to a climax before your partner is ready to stop or if one or both of you fail to reach orgasm at all. Just don't go quiet. Go on talking, describing what you are thinking of.
Before you end the call, let your phone sex partner know how much you enjoyed yourself. There is no rule as to how and when you should end the conversation after finishing. There are people who prefer to stay on the line and chat for a couple of minutes, while others prefer ending the conversation as soon as their breathing has returned to normal.